A testimonial from a mother with a teenage child.
What kind of concerns or issues were you struggling with before receiving Tatsuya's therapy?
1. My son’s issues, such as lack of focus, frequent forgetfulness, lack of motivation to study, and rebellious behavior.
2. Our approach as parents to dealing with our child. We often displayed inappropriate language and an intimidating attitude.
3. Issues between my husband and I caused by our son. My husband’s inappropriate language and intimidating attitude toward me.
→ At one point, I seriously considered suicide.
How did Tatsuya's therapy help improve your situation?
I learned to understand why my son was acting the way he was and how to respond in a way that could reduce or eliminate the stress he was feeling. I also realized that inappropriate language and an intimidating attitude solve nothing and only worsen the situation.
By honestly expressing my love for my son more than ever before, and sharing my feelings and emotions in response to his behavior in our daily life, I realized I could provide him with a sense of security. I also saw my husband making efforts to change. His inappropriate language and intimidating behavior toward me also diminished and eventually stopped.
What was your impression of therapy before and after?
The previous therapist I worked with made comments that stirred anxiety without fully understanding the details or situation, and their statements were far from helpful in improving our situation. This experience, where we only became more anxious without finding any solutions, made it very difficult for me to decide to receive therapy again. I wasn’t even sure if my family would agree to it.
However, through a connection with a trusted teacher who had helped my son during his childhood, I was fortunate to find Mr. Arakawa, and it was a turning point for us.
After each session, I had major realizations, and it became clear what areas needed improvement. Therapy not only improved our relationship as a parent and child but also helped improve my relationship with my husband, work relationships, and friendships. I truly felt the benefits across all aspects of life.
What did you like about the therapist?
1. The therapist paid attention to even the smallest remarks and clearly pointed them out, offering actionable improvement points.
2. He provided a clear diagnosis regarding my concerns that my son might have a developmental disorder.
3. He made no pessimistic comments.
4. The therapist clarified the points that should be focused on.
5. He gave precise advice on what was needed in the current situation and what actions should be taken.
6. The therapist approached my son’s feelings with warmth and understanding.
7. He was able to grasp feelings I couldn't put into words.
8 I felt safe and comfortable talking with the therapist.
9 The therapist praised our changes and progress.
10 He guided us toward solutions and helped us resolve our issues.
Who would you recommend the therapist to?
1. Parents struggling with their child’s truancy or bullying issues.
→ I believe therapy will definitely provide visible solutions!
2. Teachers or tutors working with children.
→ This is absolutely necessary, and I strongly recommend it.
3. Business owners.
→ It’s recommended for employee development, and I believe it will help build better relationships with employees by revealing areas where the business owners may be lacking.